Ahh, After three five month , I got this doubt again.
Here it goes.
I asked Kavitha, my angel to look for a house. Because I know, I will screw it up and it may give discomfort to her. She tried, even I tried but both failed to find a good house.
Now the request goes to next level. We asked our friends Krishnan and Prabu to look for the same. As expected, they found a house , tried to validate and found that owner is not up to the mark. But lucky guys, they found another house. It seems good. At that time, both myself and Kavitha are in Bangalore.
My father want to given the advance ( I found nothing wrong here. That is the usual process. See the house, if you like, give the advance). Before processing the same, I asked Kavitha and confirmed same. I told her to leave bangalore and have a look at the house. As usual Angel start blaming me. She thinks that I am forcing her to go to Kaveripatnam. My idea is simple. If you are going to live in a house, better go ahead and check it before giving the advance.
She told it is fine. Now the half of the advance given. When we about to leave, Tamilnadu Govt. postponed the school opening (Not a bad idea Govt) and Kavitha can stay here little bit long. Then also, I want her to go to Kaveripatnam and have a look at the house. She denied, start blaming me (what else I am going to get).
The mile ceremony date fixed by my father which should be on 12-Jun-2013. Now we need to decide whether do a whitewash or not. It should happen before Mile ceremony. Called Adhimulam, and discussed about the same. He needs four to five days to complete everything. All these things happening on Sunday, 2nd of June 2013.
Since the timeline is tight and availability of Adhimulam is unpredictable. I decided to go ahead and asked him to start the whitewash.
From Monday, Kavitha started behaving differently. Not answering my phone calls. Ideally, she is denying me.
Today(06-June-2013), I discussed with Packers and Movers and decided to move all the things by 15th June. This is just for kavitha. I know she is not comfortable in my old house so decided to move the things ASAP.
When calling, she start blasting me. She doesn't like the house and she don't want to live there. Which is fine, but denying to talk and act differently is too much I think. I don't want to blame her. Might be one of the qualities of Angel.
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Here is how I am planning to settle it down.
1. Return the advance amount to Kavitha. Having that amount in her account will help her to search for a house and when she finds one, she can give the advance immediately (Here you go. Get ready for another blast and cry).
2. Pay the rent from my pocket. Fair enough. I did this mistake. Without any emotional thing, If I forced her to go to Kaveripatnam, this problem won't occur.
3. Wait for Kavitha to find a house. Don't know How I can help her. Let me see.
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End of the story : If you want to live with angel, get ready to face this kind of problems.
~With Smile
VK
